Posts tagged Queer
Q: What does the “QQ” in GLBTQQ stand for?
A: “Queer or questioning”. Some confusion has arisen from this, because the use of multiple Q’s has an additional purpose: Each extra Q increases the strength of the queerness, just like in musical notation. For example:
Q - Queer
QQ - Queerissimo (“very queer”)
QQQ - Queerissimo possibile (“as queer as is humanly possible”)
QQQQ - Queerondoando (“I bow down to your superior queerness”)
QQQQQ - David Bowie
Just like people. Labels are for squares.
A+ FOR EVERYONE WHO’S GOT NOTHING AGAINST QUEERS!!!1
oh god
Tagging this “reference” so I will be able to find it next time it’s relevant.
This is amazing.
LOL!
Okay… wow… I’m going to stop ignoring these in the hopes I can dissuade future anon creeps. Let’s hope this doesn’t backfire.
1)
This is not, nor is it ever, a compliment. This is quite obviously sexual harassment. When you try to deliver a compliment over the internet, try putting yourself in the other person’s shoes before you hit send. Ask yourself: Would you feel comfortable receiving the same message from an anon? Would you feel comfortable if a stranger confronted you and said this in public? Would you feel comfortable if your grandmother read this message? If the answer to any of those questions is no, you’re probably being creepy.
2)
No one is fucking the shit out of me. As of right now, consider me asexual. I have a definite feeling of attraction toward men, but I have less than zero desire to have sex with any person at this stage of my life. Maybe one day I’ll meet someone who can change that feeling, but, honestly, I doubt it. I would like an intimate, physical relationship, but nothing about sex appeals to me and it feels much deeper than just a whim. And, no, this isn’t just a public stance to mask a private sexual life: I’m seriously done with sex. I tried different kinds of sex with different kinds of people and finally realized my problem wasn’t that I hadn’t found my niche… I really was disinterested in and made uncomfortable by sexual intercourse. I would much prefer cuddling on the couch with a glass of wine and an episode of Doctor Who.
3)
What were you trying to accomplish in sending this message? Even if I did think this was a legitimate compliment, what would I do with it? I’m assuming you are unaware that I can figure out who you are easily* and that you were under the impression that choosing to be anonymous actually works. Given that, if I was impressed by your not-so-generous offer of penis, how would you expect me to fulfill this wish of yours? Am I supposed to start fucking every anonymous gay guy in the world until I find the one that whispers, “I sent you that Tumblr message on May 6,” while pounding my dookie hole? Or was I just, as you said, supposed to take this as a compliment? If so, what kind of compliment is that? “Oh! Thank you! I thought I was completely unfuckable until this completely anonymous person who could be anyone from a career pedophile in federal prison to a 900-pound immobile housewife in Kansas said they would love to fuck the shit out of me! I feel great now!” At which point, wouldn’t that “compliment” make me feel empty? If someone wanted to fuck the shit out of me and I wanted them to but couldn’t track them down, wouldn’t that leave me feeling depressed and unfulfilled? I think it’s probably best for everyone involved that I saw this as unbearably creepy instead of the least bit complimentary.
*(With the most basic understanding of JavaScript, there is a simple way to use the “block” link to discover an anon’s actual username. I lose that ability when I click Publish, and so to save on embarrassment for us both I’m going to forego that check. You’re welcome. I would, however, keep this in mind before sending out more harassing and disgusting Tumblr messages to vaguely tech-savvy users.)
A piece on MSNBC about trans issues.
Grey Gendernaut: writeoutoflove replied to your post: I like your blog and you seem...
writeoutoflove replied to your post: I like your blog and you seem like a cool person, but I don’t understand the cognitive dissonance that must be required for you to be christian. How do you rationalize being a part of a movement that in its own text, explicitly states that the way you…
It’s not about Christians being jerks. It’s about the teachings and texts of Christianity being not only homophobic and transphobic, but… well… completely, totally wrong. Defending your faith by saying you’re not like the others of your faith is not a defense of your faith; it’s only an acknowledgement that most of the people with the same label as you hate you. To a reasonable person that idea should set off a few red flags.
Jesus said, (Matt 5:18) “For assuredly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, one jot or one tittle will by no means pass from the law till all is fulfilled.” “The law” refers to the Old Testament Mosaic laws, which call for you to be stoned to death for a huge variety of things that you do, say, and are. This Jesus you say you’re following, while he didn’t specifically claim to hate queer people—as queer Christians are so wont to point out—didn’t need to. The law was already clear on the fact that gays should be killed… and Jesus said to keep the law. Every jot and every tittle.
Honestly, I can’t take any queer person seriously who claims to believe in any form of Christianity. It’s bad enough that the visible majority of young gay males (the “club scene”) are giving a terrible name to those of us who value and seek the education and political literacy necessary to secure our basic human rights across the globe. But to see so many queer people throw reason to the air and sing the praises of the God who demands that their blood be on their own heads… that is masochistic and sickening. And it makes no sense. And it makes me sad.
Fuck your god. He (and it’s always a he) is a cunt.
Apology From An Ex-Bully
Please help this spread. Whoever wrote this secret needs to read this letter.
